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Rutendo Gwatidzo-Changing Perspectives
What is life, without relationships? Think about it! Life is an intricate tapestry woven from the relationships we forge, the connections we nurture, and the love we share.
At its core, existence, life is not merely a series of events or achievements; it is a journey defined by the relationships that shape our experiences and provide meaning.
Understanding that life is a relationship can inspire us to cultivate deeper connections, embrace vulnerability, and foster a sense of belonging that enriches our lives.
Did you realise?
From the moment we are born, we are wired for connection. Our relationships with family, friends, colleagues, and even acquaintances play a pivotal role in our emotional, mental, and spiritual well-being.
These connections provide support, comfort, and joy reminding us that we are never alone on this journey of life. Imagine this – it takes other people to teach a child to sit, walk, run, read, write and many more until the child becomes an adult.
Even adults need others to teach them on adult things like how to work and do everything required in life. No man can operate as an island and survive.
Even if you become independent in your finances, you still need other people to support your business.
There are different groups of people needed in life for different reasons and purposes.
You need to build a strong support system. Surrounding yourself with positive, supportive individuals can create a safety net during challenging times.
These relationships remind us that we are valued and loved, providing the encouragement we need to face life’s hurdles.
You also need those you can share joys and celebrations with. Life is filled with moments of joy, and sharing these experiences with others amplifies their significance.
Celebrating milestones, achievements, or even simple pleasures with loved ones creates lasting memories and strengthens our bonds.
What relationships do!
Each relationship presents an opportunity for growth. Through our interactions with others, we gain insights, learn new perspectives, and develop empathy.
Embracing the lessons that relationships offer can enrich our understanding of ourselves and the world around us.
One of the most profound aspects of relationships is the necessity of vulnerability.
Opening ourselves up to others can be daunting, but it is through this vulnerability that we form genuine connections. Be authentic in your relationships. Being true to ourselves invites others to do the same. When we embrace authenticity, we create an environment where relationships can thrive. Sharing our fears, dreams, and struggles fosters deeper intimacy and understanding.
Sharing experiences can create bonds that transcend surface-level interactions.
A simple smile, a compliment, or a helping hand can brighten someone’s day. These gestures, while seemingly small, have the power to uplift spirits and reinforce the interconnectedness of our lives.
Be inspired to create a culture of support to others. When we prioritise kindness in our relationships, we contribute to a culture of support and encouragement. Small acts of kindness can create a ripple effect that extends far beyond immediate circles.
Be Intentional
Cultivating relationships requires intention, effort, and a willingness to invest time in the people who matter to you.
In today’s busy lives, it is easy to let relationships take a back seat.
Make it a priority to spend quality time with loved ones. Whether it is a phone call, a shared meal, or an adventure, these moments strengthen connections.
Practice active listening when talking with others. Good listening fosters understanding and shows that we value their thoughts and feelings and, it creates a safe space for open dialogue, allowing relationships to deepen.
It is also good to express appreciation for the people in your life. A simple “thank you” or a heartfelt note can go a long way in reinforcing the value of your relationships.
Organisational status
One of the challenges in many organisations is that of having transactional relationships between employees. Instead of relating relationally, creating deep relationships that care for one another beyond work, many employees only care about what they can get from the other person.
The sad truth is that if someone faces a challenge whether at home or in the workplace, that person can feel so alone and secluded because probably no one cares beyond the delivery of work.
Sadly, some people though surrounded by many colleagues, can get to a point of committing suicide or getting involved in horrible things simply because they failed to share their burdens.
Be challenged and inspired to care for others beyond work, your life is in your colleagues’ hands more than you realise.
Life is indeed a relationship, and the connections we cultivate are the threads that weave our experiences together. As you navigate your journey, remember that each interaction is an opportunity to strengthen the tapestry of your life. Embrace kindness, prioritise connection, and cherish the relationships that bring meaning to your existence.
Together, we can create a world where love and understanding flourish, reminding us that we are all alike than we are unalike. Life is a beautiful journey, and it is even more meaningful when we walk it together.
Rutendo Gwatidzo is the managing consultant at The HUB HR Consultancy – as a culture and change management specialist. She is a multi-award winning leader, consultant, speaker and coach. She is also an author of “Born to Fight” and “Breaking the Silence” books. Feedback: 0714575805/ winningstrategy.2020@gmail.com;/ Rutendo Gwatidzo_Official fb public page
